Growing Roses was my
relaxation, escape from the stresses of life and my exercise. Whether
hot or cold, I never noticed the temperature in my own little world of
rose gardening.
You can imagine my
thoughts when I suffered a major debilitating stroke in March of 2002
which left my left side all but useless.
While in rehab right
after the stroke, seven miniature rose bushes, ordered the previous
fall, arrived in the mail.
I asked my wife to
bring them, pots, potting soil, and a trowel to the hospital where I
proceeded to pot them up. The therapists wrote it down as rehab and were
enthusiastic that I still maintained an interest in my hobby.
I learned to walk
again, but had little stability, especially on lawns and other rough
surfaces. I couldn’t walk up or down a sloped surface.
My son talked me into
buying a Rascal scooter to help me get around easier. As my strength
improved, I began trying to do some gardening from the seat of my
scooter. A friend made me a towing hitch so I could pull a small wagon
behind me and I put a hitch adapter on my battery operated sprayer with
a four foot wand to help reach into the rose beds.
A small basket on the
front of the scooter provided a place to keep my pruners and other
gardening tools. My pruners are kept in a holster clipped onto the
basket and a small waste basket keeps all my trowels and other hand
tools together and within reach. I’ve made good use of a garden knife
purchased from A.M. Leonard. Many tools have been altered to make it
easier to use from a sitting position. Wooden handles were shortened on
my hoe and garden cultivator. I use an army surplus foxhole shovel to
dig holes.
I located garden tools
with handles I can extend to most any length that are comfortable for me
from either a sitting or standing position.
A pair of Felco pruners
with a cane holding attachment keeps cut canes from falling to the
ground. (Needed if you only have one usable hand.) If there is no tool
that is made for my needs I make one if I can or ask a friend to fashion
it for me. There is a basket attached to the back of the scooter which
holds a tall kitchen garbage can where I keep the longer handled tools.
I just reach behind me a grab what I need.
The swivel seat on the
scooter puts me in the best position to dig holes, rake, and plant rose
bushes.
I am determined to
garden as near to the way I did before the stroke. If I can’t use my arm
and leg, I use my head.
I cut back the sizes of
my beds and my roses from over 500 bushes to a more manageable 300. I
had a watering system professionally installed to aid with watering
chores.
The more I tried to do
from the seat of my Rascal, the more I found I could do. After turning
the Rascal over a few times, I found I was not made of china and still
bounced. I also learned to be more careful
By cutting the beds
down, I was able to access the rose bushes easier and even learned to
dig holes to plant new roses and to transplant. By planting the bushes
no more than two wide I can access them from either side.
I ordered 100 bare root
rosebushes each spring in 2003 and 2004 from the West coast and potted
them in my greenhouse over a two week period.
Each time I attempted
something new, I found out I could do a whole lot more than I thought I
could so I kept trying to do more.
My yard gently slopes
from the road down to my greenhouse and I wanted a level place to park
my trailer to keep it from spoiling my wife’s view of our little pond
and the birds who frequented it.
I had found that I
could move a lot of material, one 5 gallon bucketful at a time, simply
by sticking to it. I marked off an area next to the greenhouse, 10 feet
wide by 24 feet long and proceeded to remove the soil by placing the
filled bucket on the floor of the scooter, then taking it to a low spot
in the yard, dumping it and spreading it out with a little rake. After 3
weeks, I had cleared that place next to the greenhouse, leveled the
yard, and planted grass seed. I bought retaining wall blocks and built a
wall to keep the slope from eroding into the dug out area.
With a gloved hand and
patience you can pick up and place those retaining wall blocks, or,
slide and maneuver them onto the floor of the scooter to carry where
they are needed. I got a few smashed and bloodied fingers, toes and
shins while moving the soil and retaining wall blocks but they healed
and the pain was rewarded with the pride I had by doing it myself.
During the process, I
about wore out the scooter but I also found I was limited to what I
could do only by my own fear.
My roses looked really
good last season as I was able to keep them weeded, fertilized, and
deadheaded while working from the scooter.
I’ve even been able to
walk in the beds and use long handled rakes, hoes, and shovels.
Although, I still have no use of my left arm or hand, I’ve learned to do
what I could with my right arm. I’m really wobbly walking but I take the
garbage cans out to the curb on pick up day and spend a lot of time in
my greenhouse getting my hands dirty.
My right arm is getting
very strong from picking up all those 5 gallon buckets of dirt.
I keep my 4X8 open
trailer filled with horse manure, which I empty into those 5 gallon
buckets to spread as mulch on my rose beds. When I empty one trailer I
take it to get filled again. This is a never ending job. When all the
rose beds have been mulched with 4 inches of the stuff, it’s time to
start all over again.
The point I’m trying to
make here is:
A stroke or other
debilitating ailment need not be the end of life as you knew it. By
making a few adjustments, one can lead a near normal like and continue
to do those things you enjoy.
I drive, drove to
Florida five times, to Philadelphia and New Orleans for ARS Conventions,
go shopping by myself, walked through Southlake Mall at Christmas doing
my own shopping for the holidays, flew to Hawaii and had a heck of a
time, and during a my wife’s recent illness, proved to her that I could
cook, do dishes, and keep the house clean. Because I stay active I’ve
maintained my weight.
Ones first thought when
affected like this is to park your butt in front of the TV and become a
couch potato. You’ll not only get fat, but shorten your life.
I realize not everyone
who has a disabling illness can recover as much as I have but you are
only limited by your own desire to improve. It’s easy to sit back and
not try and it takes a certain determination and hard work, plus a few
bumps and bruises to improve. If you don’t try, it can’t happen.
Remember, don’t sweat
the small stuff.
Happy rose growing
I’m available to answer rose growing
questions via the internet at rosenut@rosenut.com or visit my website
at www.rosenut.com , or you can come by my home
most anytime for hands on rose growing tips and advice. |